✨ Jingle All the Way: Cozy Holiday Positions to Try This December
The holidays already come with twinkle lights, cozy blankets, and all the warm-and-fuzzy feelings… so why not bring a little of that joy into the bedroom too?
If you and your partner have been needing a fun, low-pressure way to reconnect, these playful, winter-themed positions are the perfect way to spice things up — whether you’re feeling adventurous or you’re easing back into intimacy.
Here are my five favorite “holiday remix” positions to warm up even the chilliest December nights:
❄️ The Sleigh Ride
Think of this as the VIP version of classic cowgirl, but with a slower, more sensual pace.
Have your partner lie back with their knees slightly bent while you straddle their pelvis. Lean forward or backward depending on what feels best for your body — slower slides, deeper connection, and a whole lot of control for you.
Perfect for:
✔ Women who want more clitoral stimulation
✔ Couples wanting eye contact + connection
✔ Anyone who loves being in charge 😉
🔔 Jingle Bells (the Soft + Sweet Edition)
The original name was a little bold, so let’s soften it up while still keeping the idea!
This one focuses on the often-forgotten erogenous zones — the inner thighs and the sensitive areas at the base of the pelvis. Straddle your partner either facing toward or away from them and explore with slow movements, gentle pressure, or a subtle massage.
Perfect for:
✔ Couples wanting variety without acrobatics
✔ Slower, sensory-focused intimacy
✔ Anyone who enjoys playful teasing
🎁 The Stocking Stuffer
If you like a little height or leverage in your positions, this one’s a fun twist.
One partner stands or kneels while the other lies back with their legs elevated (a chair or sturdy edge works great). Add a small pillow under the hips for comfort and control.
Perfect for:
✔ Deeper angles
✔ A more supported position for tired hips and knees
✔ Adding a small toy for blended pleasure (if desired)
🌙 Not-So-Silent Night
Let’s be honest — the classics are classics for a reason.
This cozy winter variation is less about perfection and more about enjoying giving and receiving at the same time. Slow down, communicate, and take breaks as needed. It’s meant to be fun, not a workout.
Perfect for:
✔ Couples who like mutual pleasure
✔ Those wanting more connection and play
✔ A little holiday giggle together (very on-brand)
🎄 XXXMas (the Mild Version!)
The original version is very “Fifty Shades,” so here’s the Diva-friendly remix:
Have your partner sit on the edge of a chair while you straddle them — their hands can rest at your waist or thighs for support. This seated position gives stability, intimacy, and the ability to adjust angles easily (especially helpful for low-libido days or tired bodies).
Perfect for:
✔ Couples who want closeness without strain
✔ Hands-on affection
✔ Deep connection + great communication
💕 Final Thoughts
Holiday intimacy doesn’t need to be complicated or wild.
Sometimes it’s about trying one small new thing that helps you reconnect, laugh a little, and remember that pleasure is absolutely a gift — for both of you.
If you’d like personalized ideas based on your relationship, mobility, or comfort level, hit reply and I’ll send you a couple of tailor-made suggestions. 💋
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